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Sarah:
- Recently, I’ve read a magazine article, and it says
over the first four years of marriage, spouses
report a gradual increase in their willingness to
forgive each other.
Francis:
- So, it means they learn to forgive each other as
they spend more time together.
Sarah:
- ----
Francis:
- What do you mean?
Sarah:
- The article says forgiving benefits both partners
only if the forgiven partner is agreeable and
cooperative. If not, he or she tends to offend
again.
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I think anyone who is in a close relationship will, at some point, have to decide whether or not to forgive. |
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Well, I believe the most important thing in relations is mutual trust. If you have it, you don’t experience such forgiveness problems. |
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It’s also possible that even if someone wants to forgive, they might not think that the wrongdoer or offender really deserves it. |
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One needs to be cautious, though, as forgiveness could backfire, depending on the offending partner’s personality. |
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Maybe the reason is that being exposed to situations where forgiveness is required helps one improve that skill. |